Try these on for size –
Whatever it is that you pride yourself in not needing, find, summon, or create more of it in your life. For me, this is sleep as well as emotional and physical support from others.
Whatever it is that you pride yourself in being able to do a lot of, cut back and see how you truly feel (vs. your ego). For me, this is hours working and even simply being awake.
What are your less and more?