You can stop searching.
The thing is, you have always known who you are.
Who you are isn’t a job title or a name or a gender or what car you drive or (and especially not) what your parents or anyone else thinks of you.
While you may not be able to verbalize it, you have always acted in truth of who you are.
Knowing who you are is not an intellectual activity, it a trusting one.
I write everyday because it allows me to voice what is at the surface. Once that is out of my head, I can dig in another layer deeper. My daily writing practice has been my greatest exploration of self and humanity. Sign up here to receive these thought nuggets in your inbox on the daily.